For gloves, I use these...
http://www.prefair.ca/products/?id=3296&s=820
Awesome gloves. Took several hits to the fingers in CQB with minimal pain. They're well padded, comfortable, and you still have good dexterity. They're quite durable too. I've used them for 4 games so far - 2 indoors and 2 outdoors, and they show no real signs of wear.